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marriage is rooted in ownership of women and is, in general, bad for women. idgi why people want it
either bc of all the legal stuff it's tied up with or bc of its cultural value as a status symbol
man all these women on that forum calling themselves girls or saying it's inspiring to wait on a dude who you don't want to get married to, to say he wants to get married.. damn this is depressing. stop waiting to exhale, jesus.
like who doesn't talk to their partner about what they are expecting? even in a ldr, at what point are you going to start just dropping hints about marriage bc u didn't talk about it during the dating phase. 1yr is like hell naw, and 2 yrs is like he'd better say something even tho i'm not ready??
like who doesn't talk to their partner about what they are expecting? even in a ldr, at what point are you going to start just dropping hints about marriage bc u didn't talk about it during the dating phase. 1yr is like hell naw, and 2 yrs is like he'd better say something even tho i'm not ready??
lots of couples don't talk to each other about shit, it's weird
My character has an extremelly bad imunological system, a condition he apparently inherited from his mother. I wanted a chronic illness for him to have other than his poor imunological system, or maybe even an chronic condition that explained his poor imunological system, but I don't know what it could be.
I searched for a couple of things, but I was confused. I'd like something that could be treated with medicine\vitamins. Bonus if the disease causes him to be physically tired
I searched for a couple of things, but I was confused. I'd like something that could be treated with medicine\vitamins. Bonus if the disease causes him to be physically tired
setting up an elaborate proposal involving all our friends and families and putting you in the spot rn
nona will u marry me?
nona will u marry me?
oh biba I've been waiting for this moment my whole life!
::spreads legs and grunts, reaching up into the moist cloaca folds to retrieve the ring I got you::
::spreads legs and grunts, reaching up into the moist cloaca folds to retrieve the ring I got you::
will we get gay marriage wank or making fun of weddings is misogyny wank?
how does being married protect you from any of this:
even the poster says none of her married family stayed together
avoid a worse breakup and don't get legally entangled in the first place
yeah but i wouldn't want to bring a child into "as long as we are happy."
it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
even the poster says none of her married family stayed together
avoid a worse breakup and don't get legally entangled in the first place
lol this sounds like my parents. have fun with that igss
PostSecret @postsecret 1h
@JulesAboutTown Hi Julie, I think there is more than just one way to interpret that secret and my decision to post it. -F
@JulesAboutTown Hi Julie, I think there is more than just one way to interpret that secret and my decision to post it. -F
hope he dad and dumped in the woods somewhere
Just a quick post to kill some time here at work.
I know I can't be the only one that thinks of all the things that would make a great proposal for myself. I have so many ideas! SO has told me that he's waiting for the right time and wants to plan something that will be perfect. I've told him several times I don't need or necessarily want a big public blown up proposal but I don't think that information sticks.
I could seriously give him a list of perfect opportunities that have happened in the last couple months. Why are men so terribly clueless?? During one of our half-joking-but-really-not conversations about getting married, he told me "I just don't know how I would do it." To which I replied, "J---- Chr---! Just GOOGLE IT!"
Seriously. I told my man to google "proposal ideas".
Part of me wants to tell my best friend (who can't keep her mouth shut about ANYTHING) about all my ideas and hope she leaks the information.
Its sort of like that time around birthday when he asks what I want and I say "nothing" when I really mean "I want something but I want you to figure it out based on how well you (should) know me, without having to tell you."
lol who has enough ~proposal ideas in the first place that they need to try to leak them to their bf
I know I can't be the only one that thinks of all the things that would make a great proposal for myself. I have so many ideas! SO has told me that he's waiting for the right time and wants to plan something that will be perfect. I've told him several times I don't need or necessarily want a big public blown up proposal but I don't think that information sticks.
I could seriously give him a list of perfect opportunities that have happened in the last couple months. Why are men so terribly clueless?? During one of our half-joking-but-really-not conversations about getting married, he told me "I just don't know how I would do it." To which I replied, "J---- Chr---! Just GOOGLE IT!"
Seriously. I told my man to google "proposal ideas".
Part of me wants to tell my best friend (who can't keep her mouth shut about ANYTHING) about all my ideas and hope she leaks the information.
Its sort of like that time around birthday when he asks what I want and I say "nothing" when I really mean "I want something but I want you to figure it out based on how well you (should) know me, without having to tell you."
lol who has enough ~proposal ideas in the first place that they need to try to leak them to their bf
Male victims of sexual assault are taken much less seriously than female victims, and report the crimes less often for cultural reasons and knowing that they're unlikely to get anywhere with it. Handling of reports is poor and in need of work for both sexes, but for men it's significantly worse. And it snowballs into an idea of "assault of men is extremely rare and usually bullshit" because so few report and only a tiny percentage of them are believed when they do.
is that true?
is that true?
extroverted intuitive and aggressive
in five years you will all be working for me
or dead by my hand
in five years you will all be working for me
or dead by my hand
I think I may have asked this once before a long time ago, but I can't seem to find the thread for it.
So, what is the absolute longest that you think you're willing to wait for your BF to propose? 2 years? 3 years? 4 years? Longer than that? Just curious, as I think it will be interesting to see everyone's responses about this.
I always told myself that 3 years was the absolute longest I'd be willing to wait. So, I've been feeling really anxious and stressed the past few months now that our 3 year anniversary is coming up really soon at the end of May. I love my BF so much and can't stand the thought of being without him. So, I can't say that I will definitely end things if we aren't engaged by our 3 year anniversary. However, I feel like I will at the very least be super depressed and disappointed if it doesn't happen by then. Mostly because I feel like 3 years should be more than enough time for him to decide whether or not he wants to marry me.
omg clarm down
So, what is the absolute longest that you think you're willing to wait for your BF to propose? 2 years? 3 years? 4 years? Longer than that? Just curious, as I think it will be interesting to see everyone's responses about this.
I always told myself that 3 years was the absolute longest I'd be willing to wait. So, I've been feeling really anxious and stressed the past few months now that our 3 year anniversary is coming up really soon at the end of May. I love my BF so much and can't stand the thought of being without him. So, I can't say that I will definitely end things if we aren't engaged by our 3 year anniversary. However, I feel like I will at the very least be super depressed and disappointed if it doesn't happen by then. Mostly because I feel like 3 years should be more than enough time for him to decide whether or not he wants to marry me.
omg clarm down
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hork
hork
it's like someone glued a dick to a fursuit
yep
especially when i have to make more than one trip because no car
especially when i have to make more than one trip because no car
he's kind of cute but also just a normal looking dude
idg what the fuss is about tbh
idg what the fuss is about tbh
My birthday is on September 4th and so whenever I heard the Green Day song “Wake Me Up When September Ends” I used to get really upset because then they’d miss my birthday
september 4th is beyonce's bday
look at that girl she wants him so bad i dont blame her
HEY! It's September and you know what that means...
All the b**ches who don’t know the meaning of “Wake Me Up When September Ends” begin the string of jokes that just aren’t funny…
All the b**ches who don’t know the meaning of “Wake Me Up When September Ends” begin the string of jokes that just aren’t funny…
u know u got monster flies when one lands str8 on ur glasses as ur wearing them
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