mommysquad: (mars)
mommysquad ([personal profile] mommysquad) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2012-05-02 05:36 pm

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hey bibas!



what's your favorite mode of transportation?

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tl;dr should i date my friend?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
nonas i think one of my friends is hinting toward us dating. i kinda had a crush on her for a while, but it fell off as i realized it would never work long term. she's super "hometown pride!" and will never leave here. i've lived a lot of places and this is def not my fave, and i plan to travel and live in a lot more.

but like... i still find her attractive, and we balance each other really well.

afraid of sacrificing a friendship (which could probably survive long-distance) for a relationship that won't last.

and after typing all that out i def shouldn't do it, huh?

Re: tl;dr should i date my friend?

[personal profile] justanona 2012-05-03 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
nona it sounds like you dont want to do it. there will be other people who are attractive and balance you out, and it sounds like you like your friendship with her

Re: tl;dr should i date my friend?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
yeah part of the reason i've been waffling is because i am of course an awkward nona who doesn't run into people wanting to date me often.

but typing it out and hearing common sense answers helps ty.

Re: tl;dr should i date my friend?

[personal profile] justanona 2012-05-03 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
even awkward nonas can get dates nona! dont u worry <3

Re: tl;dr should i date my friend?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
n, but not b/c of ~sacrificing a friendship~ or w/e, b/c you want to get out of there