are you absolutely sure the feelings have gone for good, rather than u suppressing them because of distance/fear of intimacy/stuff like that? i have gone off people in the past the minute they showed any interest, so i was wondering if it could be something like that.
if u do have a talk with him u can always say that although u do care about him a lot the distance between u would b a deal breaker and u don't see it working out in the long run - if u don't want to have to get into the finer details of working out your sexuality
i was wondering about the fear of intimacy thing bc i definitely have that
but at the same time there was a period of several months where i would say to myself "i would ID as a lesbian except for this one guy who ruins it all" so i also wonder if maybe i was clinging to that bc i was afraid of being completely gay or smth? and then once it became ~real i realized i couldn't do it :c
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Re: OK here is my big abloobloo post
if u do have a talk with him u can always say that although u do care about him a lot the distance between u would b a deal breaker and u don't see it working out in the long run - if u don't want to have to get into the finer details of working out your sexuality
anyway HOGS it will be fine.
Re: OK here is my big abloobloo post
(Anonymous) 2012-05-29 10:06 am (UTC)(link)but at the same time there was a period of several months where i would say to myself "i would ID as a lesbian except for this one guy who ruins it all" so i also wonder if maybe i was clinging to that bc i was afraid of being completely gay or smth? and then once it became ~real i realized i couldn't do it :c