my friend's ex boyfriend killed himself yesterday

naturally, she's upset. she's married and has a kid now, but her relationship with this guy was a big part of her life with a lot of negative emotions surrounding it

on a personal level, i hated him. he was emotionally abusive to everyone, but no one more than her. there were threats of suicide in exchange for love and staying with him, near the end, so of course now she thinks this is all her fault, that she could have done something to help him.

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