mommysquad: (pluto)
mommysquad ([personal profile] mommysquad) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2012-05-18 08:53 am

18 May

Hey nonas!




ROAD TRIP!
what are your favorite road trip songs/mixes? any good stories?

toss things out of the car

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
tbh i hate this fad that says that gq people are better at feminism than cis women. ofc feminism has fucked up horribly wrt trans people, but someone who doesn't identify as a woman shouldn't be able to talk over women about feminism. trans women are perfectly capable of doing that shit

i just get uncomfortable when people who aren't women act like they know so much more about misogyny than women.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
ugh they aren't better but faab gq ppl have a voice in feminism, and this whole "ppl who aren't women" thing gets on my nerves just as much as ppl who like to talk over women in feminism

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:55 pm (UTC)(link)
why

tw transphobia

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
b/c faab gq ppl sometimes still identify as women and excluding us as a whole when there are different identities and leanings within gq/gf ppl is kinda rlly transphobic. just calling it out based on talking over is fine, but being like "you have no say, you aren't a woman" is transphobic and shortsighted

Re: tw transphobia

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
if they identify as women, then they're welcome. if they don't, then they're not.

Re: tw transphobia

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:01 pm (UTC)(link)
that's a dumby anon community for you

Re: tw transphobia

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
jw wondering if you're faab and id as a woman, in what way are you gq?

Re: tw transphobia

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
if you're gf you can sometimes id as a woman

and being a faab gq person you can still add to the movement

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
sorry feminism is for women

if gq people want a movement they can make their own

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
dude naw

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
right and who does that? people who identify as men.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
feminism is a movement for women.

not for people who aren't men.

women.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:00 pm (UTC)(link)
what about all the issues that are based on having a faab body?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
many trans men would qualify on this too

are they allowed in

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
well some things they say could be relevant

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
no1curr about men's opinions on feminism

and saying that trans dudes are welcome in feminism but cis dudes aren't is p transphobic since you're implying that they're closer to being women than cis men are

js

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
trans men still have issues that are connected to feminism and even tho they are men-their bodies are still being governed by dumbass misogynistic and body policing law

HTFH

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
feminism is about more than just body issues

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:13 pm (UTC)(link)
sometimes i wonder what the fuck is in the drinking water

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
well trans dudes sure aren't welcome in feminism anymore than any other men.

but that shit is all rooted in misogyny (abortion restrictions are all designed to control women, non-women who are affected are just collateral damage).

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:04 pm (UTC)(link)
unfortunately true

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:03 pm (UTC)(link)
tumblr ----|>

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 04:56 pm (UTC)(link)
i have a 'friend' (we've p much stopped hanging out because they annoy the fuck out of me) who is gq and always, always went on about how our uni's women's group is transphobic because it doesn't let in gq people or trans men.

it's a gd women's group, it's for women.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-18 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
lol