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mommysquad ([personal profile] mommysquad) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2012-05-15 06:05 pm

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 hey nonas



are you street-smart?
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(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
feel so bad when i can't understand african english accents

what's the politest way to ask someone to repeat what they've said and/or tell them you have trouble understanding their accent?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
"pardon me, could you repeat that?"

your statement should focus on the fact that you didn't understand them, not that their accent made it hard for you to understand them

also, scientific studies have proven that the more you listen to an accent without 'judging' it as 'foreign' or 'hard', the easier and faster you will come to understand it

(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
what about asking them to speak more slowly?

i'm not trying to not understand it, it just is hard to understand for someone not from that country and not used to it

(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
"sorry, i'm a bit tired/distracted/out of things today, could you repeat that more slowly?"

basically, it's considered more polite to put the responsibility for not understanding on yourself, or at least something other than the speaker. if you work somewhere with a fair bit of background noise, blaming that always works well.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-16 03:31 pm (UTC)(link)
oh that's a good idea about putting the blame on yourself