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my ability to show excitement for friends going on dates/having romantic times has been all fucked up lately.

i've managed to hide my own history of forever alone-ness, and most of my current friends have no idea that i've never dated or had sex. they mostly just think i'm private about that stuff. my well-adjusted and normal act is really fab now.

but lately whenever someone mentions dating, i just have a pause as my brain tries to bring up all the loneliness and "oh god what is wrong with me". i am genuinely happy for my friends even if i am kinda jealous. i gotta get better at covering this shit up, i think they're starting to notice my glitches. :(

:( biba

idk what to say but *hugs*

aw ty nona. :)

come clean to them and ask them for help getting dates/laid

it worked for me

i am slightly wary about that because i have had friends where i admitted before and they just got really awkward and just told me "oh it'll happen" then didn't wanna talk about it anymore.

but most of my current friends are a little more sensitive and have experience with mi issues. i should prob try again. :\

i've had these experiences too nona :( idk what to do either

there are ways to get the ball rolling without telling everything, you can just be like 'hey, i noticed you're meeting a ton of great guys/girls, and it's just i'm so busy with (blah) that i've been a bit behind with meeting people. what are your secrets' or something like that

friends worth having want to see you happy and would love to help you out

ty nona this is good advice. i will try to ease myself into next time. :)

nayrt but my pride makes me stop also i dont want to seem desparate :/

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