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mommysquad ([personal profile] mommysquad) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2012-04-24 06:27 pm

24/04/2012 - 25/04/2012

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let's talk about two of anon's favourite topics :D

which is the better release?

deletion thread

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:35 am (UTC)(link)
nonas, please don't take this the wrong way but i really cannot take the label "hard femme" seriously. where does it even come from? i mean that's why i don't get it, it's a label and there doesn't seem to be any weight/history behind it. also i feel like a goddamn lesbian relic (and i'm only in my mid-twenties) for having grown up with 'low/high femme'. does anyone know who coined this thing? is this about not being ~like all the other girls~, or...?

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
ia

do we really need a special name for femme w/ dr martens and ripped leggings and face piercings

nayrt

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
oh is that what it's supposed to mean
lol

Re: nayrt

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
i could be wrong idk?? i've only heard "hard femme" used on tumblr

high femme i've heard irl a lot, but not hard femme

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

omg how lol, so basically it's for an Internet generation that thinks it's ~edgy~

welp

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
i've rarely if ever heard 'hard femme,' just thought nona was switching the adjectives for butches & femmes

high femme is the term i've used

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
hard femme is a new tumblr thing

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
see, i've never heard it either, but i was wondering because i keep seeing it all over tumblr. nobody i know uses anything other than 'femme', sometimes they state 'high' or 'low' but that's it. i dunno, that's why i asked.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-25 06:39 am (UTC)(link)
idk, as far as i can tell it's ~femme with an attitude~

and i grew up where there were femmes and the people the femmes thought were frumpy