Um, guys, do you ever really want to hear sex stories from your significant other’s past?
i tell my bf about that shit all the time and vice versa, surely these people are aware that their partners used to have sex before they came along and are secure enough in their relationships to be able to deal with being reminded of that, right
i never ~really want~ to hear stories but like, if it comes up in conversation or we're talking about what we like or want to do in bed, then yeah, that's totally fine. of course they've had sex before and some/a lot of that experience will be relevant to what they want or don't want now.
ia w/the nona above, i never really want to b/c it's always at least a little awkward, but usually it's more of a "just ripped a fart that sounded like a foghorn" awkward than a "oh god help the world is ending going to die of uncomfortable" awkward
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(Anonymous) 2012-04-18 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)i tell my bf about that shit all the time and vice versa, surely these people are aware that their partners used to have sex before they came along and are secure enough in their relationships to be able to deal with being reminded of that, right
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(Anonymous) 2012-04-18 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)or maybe relevant
ia w/the nona above, i never really want to b/c it's always at least a little awkward, but usually it's more of a "just ripped a fart that sounded like a foghorn" awkward than a "oh god help the world is ending going to die of uncomfortable" awkward