i boned a dude who was in his 30s when i was 17 and thought i was hardcore bc i did drugs and shit. people kept telling me it was a bad idea and shit and i was just like w/e idegaf.
but then again when i was 20 i slept with a dude who was 41 and i p much destroyed his common-law relationship bc he ~fell in love with me~ and then i bailed out bc he was creepy.
Re: tw drugs, huge age gap in sexual relationship.
talk to her about safe sex. talk to her about consensual sex and what it means.
i know it's stupid and useless to be like "anything you do won't work" but tbh, most girls i know that have been in this situation have p much refused any advice because they feel in control and that it's what they want. anyone that tells them how bad of an idea it is will just fuel the fire.
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tw drugs, huge age gap in sexual relationship.
(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 02:57 am (UTC)(link)i boned a dude who was in his 30s when i was 17 and thought i was hardcore bc i did drugs and shit. people kept telling me it was a bad idea and shit and i was just like w/e idegaf.
but then again when i was 20 i slept with a dude who was 41 and i p much destroyed his common-law relationship bc he ~fell in love with me~ and then i bailed out bc he was creepy.
Re: tw drugs, huge age gap in sexual relationship.
(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 02:58 am (UTC)(link)my family is fundamental and my sister hasn't broken from that beyond the whole sex/relationship thing
'm just worried she has no clue how sex even works
Re: tw drugs, huge age gap in sexual relationship.
(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 03:01 am (UTC)(link)i know it's stupid and useless to be like "anything you do won't work" but tbh, most girls i know that have been in this situation have p much refused any advice because they feel in control and that it's what they want. anyone that tells them how bad of an idea it is will just fuel the fire.