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who's yr fave on rupaul's drag race bibas?

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i expect the offer, but if he insisted or fought me when i declined, it'd kick him to the curb so fast

you seriously expect someone to pay for something for you? wtf kind of bullshit entitlement is that?

lol clarm down

many guys offer to pay, that's prob why she expects it

nayrt

offer, biba

at least if they were the person who asked the other out, they're supposed to at least offer to pay

they're "supposed" to?

wtf

yes?

if i asked someone out, i would offer to pay, too

+1

the asker should always offer to pay, man or woman

uh yes

it is implied that when you ask someone to go with you somewhere that you've chosen a place you can afford

you are essentially acting as that person's host

exactly

like it or not, it's traditional manners when a man is actually interested in a woman

if i don't get an offer to pay, chances are overwhelming that he's not into me

idk i think if he offers it's a sign that he thinks men should pay. which creeps me out bc it just goes back to "men should be this and this in the relationship"

i mean obviously you can have that discussion and talk about why it bothers you, but yeah. it's definitely a whiff of something poopy.

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