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mommysquad ([personal profile] mommysquad) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2012-04-07 02:26 am

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hi nonabibas
itp, discuss outfits and looks and trends you love or hate

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tw dv

(Anonymous) 2012-04-07 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
my school library has this big book on display in the new book section called "couples therapy for domestic violence"

oh

Re: tw dv

(Anonymous) 2012-04-07 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
a branch of the organisation i work for runs couples therapy for couple's who have dv relationships and...idk. i mean, it's not my area, they're the specialists etc, and i recognise it's important to at least improve the safety of people who aren't going to leave the relationship, but i have no idea how our therapists sit down with assholes like that and try to help them work on their relationship.

Re: tw dv

(Anonymous) 2012-04-07 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah i mean i do think abusers can change which may b an unpopular opinion here idk

but at the same time, even though my abuser got his life together, got sober and recognizes that he was abusive, i could never ever be with him without feeling fear and resentment

Re: tw dv

(Anonymous) 2012-04-07 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm just gonna assume that hopefully it's for couples who are mutually abusive and leave it at that

i hope