idk nona i promise i wasn't trying to be an ass but this sounds like way too much, esp if you've had your own issues
being with him constantly made it sound pretty serious and also pretty unhealthy for both of you.. i understand that you want to be there for him, but you shouldn't put yourself in a position to sink with him, you know?
what i'm trying to say is try to think really hard about whether you got with him because of genuine feelings, or because you wanted to be his hero, because i've done that shit and it ain't pretty :/
we've been together constantly more or less out of boredom - i'm almost constantly with a mutual friend that he was friends with before we started seeing each other more - so he'd come around whenever we were together and it spawned from there. it hasn't been a, 'i need to be with you' thing, more like 'i don't feel like going home, want to watch a movie? hang out a bit longer?' kind of thing.
idk. i have thought about it. i don't want to be his hero - i had feelings for him long before i knew any of this happened or knew him so intimately, since it happened so recently. before things went further i thought about it and knew that i wasn't in any place to 'save' anyone anyway, and i know i can't do that. i don't want to, either.
Re: tw: mi, hospitalization
(Anonymous) 2012-04-05 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)being with him constantly made it sound pretty serious and also pretty unhealthy for both of you.. i understand that you want to be there for him, but you shouldn't put yourself in a position to sink with him, you know?
what i'm trying to say is try to think really hard about whether you got with him because of genuine feelings, or because you wanted to be his hero, because i've done that shit and it ain't pretty :/
Re: tw: mi, hospitalization
(Anonymous) 2012-04-05 04:04 pm (UTC)(link)idk. i have thought about it. i don't want to be his hero - i had feelings for him long before i knew any of this happened or knew him so intimately, since it happened so recently. before things went further i thought about it and knew that i wasn't in any place to 'save' anyone anyway, and i know i can't do that. i don't want to, either.
Re: tw: mi, hospitalization
(Anonymous) 2012-04-05 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)take care of yourself, yeah?
Re: tw: mi, hospitalization
(Anonymous) 2012-04-05 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)i will, thank you