idk nona i promise i wasn't trying to be an ass but this sounds like way too much, esp if you've had your own issues

being with him constantly made it sound pretty serious and also pretty unhealthy for both of you.. i understand that you want to be there for him, but you shouldn't put yourself in a position to sink with him, you know?

what i'm trying to say is try to think really hard about whether you got with him because of genuine feelings, or because you wanted to be his hero, because i've done that shit and it ain't pretty :/