yeah. i don't think you should be pissed about him inviting a new friend to spend time with you 'cause you perceive her to be prettier than you, but everything else would piss me off, especially the hug and the oh shit look.
well i wouldn't say it was an oh shit look, but he did freeze for a moment and then give me a hug too, like he was expecting it would make me jealous, in which case he shouldn't have done it in front of me right
yeah idk how to advise rly because i used to get rly jealous and i'm trying to work on not being like that now but p much that indicates that he knew he was doing something that would hurt your feelings and did it anyway. i don't think i can say whether it's reasonable for your feelings to be hurt in that situation because jealousy isn't something i'm good with, but it definitely sounds like something you should talk about with him
and him not paying attention to you all night is just rude as fuck, whether it was about the girl or not
my ex used to do this all the time and made me feel like shit. i mean yeah, jealousy is something you should work on but lbr everyone is jealous sometimes and it's really not too much to ask your gf/bf to be considerate of your feelings
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(Anonymous) 2012-04-03 02:58 pm (UTC)(link)ugh idk
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(Anonymous) 2012-04-03 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)and him not paying attention to you all night is just rude as fuck, whether it was about the girl or not
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(Anonymous) 2012-04-03 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)my ex used to do this all the time and made me feel like shit. i mean yeah, jealousy is something you should work on but lbr everyone is jealous sometimes and it's really not too much to ask your gf/bf to be considerate of your feelings
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