(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
i mean, there's other ways to have fun beyond fandom. tbh that shit is barely hobby and more like going into obsession.

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
u kno there's levels of fandom involvement right

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah and each ascending level just gets more sad imo

to me, hobbies help you develop a skill and being into ~fandom~, meaning the basic definition is being more than a casual fan of something, alone isn't sth that would help you grow as a person

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
lol hope u get rid of this capitalism damage

hobbies are for enjoyment not for ~learning skills~

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
lol this is a reach. according to you, hobbies can only be fun in capitalism. lol sad.

i didn't say "hobbies are for learning new skills and never ever having fun ever" but go off

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
hobbies help you develop a skill
-u five mins ago

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
right, please point to me where i said "hobbies can never be fun"

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
what's wrong with just enjoying urself

why must every experience be training

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
idk what is wrong with it, anon

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
u know what i'm asking

why does everything u do have to be useful for something

what's wrong with just doing things bc u like them

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
you implied that, i didn't

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
do you not think people with nonfandom hobbies don't get obsessed and dramatic

because you're in for a treat

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
i didn't say that so try again

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
lol something tells me u dgaf abt men outgrowing sports

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)
it's probably ur frightening urge to start wank, ima

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
lol you're the ima here with your sexism

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
me: "ppl can have fun out of fandom and the more obsessed you are with it, the more it's unhealthy for you"

you: "stop hating the shit out of women, ima"

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
this thread is about women and has always been about sexism

and you come in with your concern trolling lol

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
op: "tumblr's "fandom is for kids" attitude is so fucking weird tbh. w/e, unfollowed them bc they obvs don't want an icky over-25 getting old cooties all over their posts"

me: "i mean, there's other ways to have fun beyond fandom. tbh that shit is barely hobby and more like going into obsession."

you: "this is a prime example of the sheer hatred society has for women"

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt but where r u getting this obsession line from

is that how u engage with fandom? bc that sounds like a u problem

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
bc fandom can involve obsession

lol im not involved with fandom so try again

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
any hobby can involve obsession

it's not inherent to fandom it's inherent to people lol

(Anonymous) 2018-11-09 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
no but it's there