(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
i read a thing that said when you judge someone you should analyze your micromotives for the judgement

and it's so hard lql. i just got annoyed by a woman who in response to a really simple question and literally the only comment on a ticket was for her just to put her phone number down.

idefk

(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
tbh im judgy af bc insecure and realizing this has made me less judgy

(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
the idea is you can figure out what you're insecure about or what you're good at by figuring out what and why you're judging

i think i'm just judging her bc she expects me to make 100% of the effort
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[personal profile] watimiss 2018-11-08 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)
does that really count as judging?

(Anonymous) 2018-11-08 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
i cant parse what she actually did but just feeling annoyed at someone isnt necessarily a judgement