biba if you want to have an anonymous place to ask about this where trans men will answer, i know there's like three posting to wankofthedas and i doubt the mod there will be upset if you make a post there asking for advice, you would get people who actually pertain to the topic answering and can get their takes on the situation if it would help
aw ty for the heads up <3 i've never posted to wankofthedas be4 (ive never even played dragon age all the way thru lol) would it be weird just busting in there with a big blooing post like this? maybe i'll lurk around and ~feel out the community~
(my gut reaction after reading this was "oh god im scared 2 discuss this w actual trans men bc that would just make me feel inadequate" which...is striking me as evidence that this prob is smthn i should bring to therapy lql. mb a bigger deal than i thought.)
i think scoping out the community would help yeah, but there's been a few other people who frequent there that make posts looking for advice like this, so it wouldn't be totally unexpected :)
they seem really nice there so i would hope they didn't say anything to mock what you're feeling
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 01:33 am (UTC)(link)(my gut reaction after reading this was "oh god im scared 2 discuss this w actual trans men bc that would just make me feel inadequate" which...is striking me as evidence that this prob is smthn i should bring to therapy lql. mb a bigger deal than i thought.)
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 01:42 am (UTC)(link)they seem really nice there so i would hope they didn't say anything to mock what you're feeling
whatever you do i hope you're well beebs <3