(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
you know what i think happens

they say gay ppl complaining about watching het romances everywhere and think it's about the sex/physical touching and that they're repulsed by the sex and miss the fact that it's bc you don't see gay couples more often

so they're trying to adopt that annoyance/disgust w/o understanding it plus basically being babies who are still in their circle circle dot dot phase

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
not not a woman

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
ty for responding! it's not a pain that makes me think i need to see someone immediately, it's minor but bc it's in my lower right abdominal i just don't want to take chances
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[personal profile] there_was_a_moose 2015-08-01 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
nona appendicitis is a pretty serious emergency, in spite of how (relatively) common it is, please get to emerg asap

hope u well biba

Re: trans nonas

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
i've seen a lot of people say it took them 2 or more years to get and that's so frightening that people have to go through that, i feel like there's so much i'm learning through this process

i'm the nona on the last page venting about suicidal stuff and fathers, we live in a pretty rural and the nearest city for trans groups let alone clinics is several hours away so its frustrating working with local clinicians who are super ignorant and keep lying to me about what they're doing for me

it's just frustrating but obviously people have waited longer and survived so i just need to remember that

thank you we are definitely going to rule 2016

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
yup its pretty much ripped off like every other ~ace narrative from the "ooo no the dsm lists losing ur sex drive as a symptom sometimes????' to 'i thought i was broken bc i could draw in the 4th grade'

like AVENs whole thing was coopting LGBT shit. David Jay was into SF nonsexual cuddle parties and shit

Re: trans nonas

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
i haven't started yet :(

i have 9 more months of ~proving myself~ to my dr (aka wearing makeup and a dress every time i see her and self-flagellating enough that she thinks i deserve to be ~transformed)

i'm not hyper femme though but i feel like i have to be just in case she sees me out in the world by chance and i'm wearing skinny jeans and a tshirt and looking like a "gay man" instead of a hyper feminine woman. it's really scary idk some days i don't even want to go outside.

plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
bibas in laymans terms, what is/are the differences between socialism and communism? bc from what i've read it seems to be exactly the same except communism has more awful dictators

Re: trans nonas

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
fuck thats the worst. its awful but true that a lot of clinics especially outside of metropolitan areas, even if they're working with the best of intentions, just can't/don't/wont keep their staff up to date about how the process works. its ilke trying to have ur semi clueless friend help u w ur shit except in this case its vital medical care.

im so sorry about your dad. family is the hardest and worse and like i remember having this whole plan of 'somehow i will raise 39402348230k and go live in a one room in seattle just to make this happen. obvs that didn't happen but i finally did get the Rx

its ok to feel bad and discouraged, we're all here/have been there with you even if living in the ass end of nowhere keeps us from having like swanky trans coffee dates

(srsly my friends brother is in Sydney australia and goes to like a cafe week group w 8 other trans ppl idek if i irl know 8 other trans ppl)

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
ty! i'm starting to think it's not appendicitis bc nonas are making it sound serious and i'm def not at the point where it hurts badly or smth feels wrong

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
socialism is a step to the concept of communism

nona poll

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
how many of u watch rhett & link

Re: trans nonas

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry people RLE is so much bullshit. i was anticipating going through that myself and dreading the idea of trying to pass without hormones but so far i can't even get in to see a psychiatrist at all. but it will probably happen.

i wish informed consent clinics were the norm and everywhere.

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, i sorta gathered that much at least

can u elaborate tho? i google it and i get tldr articles w/ lots of political jargon that idg

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
i'm related to a local serial killer :/

he's my cousin and my entire family moved from that city because people would put 2 and 2 together and then we'd be blamed even tho he's my cousin and we had minimal contact with him

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
that's literally just it tho

socialism is the first step out of capitalism towards communism

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
socialism wants everyone's needs met - food, shelter, education, medical, etc. but is cool with private property and (very regulated) individual business

communism doesn't believe in private property or non-collective business, but is otherwise similar

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
isn't a proletariat revolution the first step, followed by socialism?

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
http://www.marxmail.org/faq/socialism_and_communism.htm

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
pedantry is nagl

Re: plz halp a dumbalina out rn

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
that seems too simple for such a seemingly complicated gov't system tho

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
that's shitty, nona

hope ur cousin never gets out of jail

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
where do u live

(Anonymous) 2015-08-01 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
i'm distantly related to john hinckley