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tw body image issues, weight, mi

[(Anonymous)]

bibas lately i've been having a lot of trouble accepting that my gf can't bring herself to have sex with me. it all comes down to her body issues (she used to be a really fit athlete, now she's not + a narcisistic mother who still critizes everything about her appearence) and i get that, i do, and we've talked about it and she's told me she understands that i'm not going to leave her if i see "something i don't like" and then we've talked again and nothing comes out of it. she refuses to get therapy for this and other stuff and idk what to do bc while i feel like a selfish shit it's still a necessary part of a relationship for me and it's been almost three months. at the beginning (we started dating around february) it wasn't like this at all and the change was so sudden, yet it doesn't register in her mind that we DID use to have sex. like she's outright said "it's always been like this".

idk what to do. i love her and i understand denial is a thing but a part of me can't help but resent her for not getting help when she has every option available.

tl;dr being in an accidental asexy relationship is tearing me down and i feel selfish about it

Re: tw body image issues, weight, mi

[(Anonymous)]

break up

Re: tw body image issues, weight, mi

[(Anonymous)]

ur not being selfish and u shouldn't stay in a relationship ur unhappy with

it sux that she has problems but you don't owe it 2 her to stay with her when she's not willing to do anything abt wats makin u unhappy