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the fuck you say punk

have it erased

"sex-repulsed" lol oh yeah that sounds like a healthy identity..

edgy ppl taking the sex-negative/sex poz backlash to a whole new level w/o regard for the actual criticisms, but for the sake of being contrarian

"sex repulsed" in asexy stuff either means "asexual who doesn't want to fuck" or "if you mention sex around me or near me I'll want to barf but you can't suggest I need help bc my identity"

oh

seriously thought it was a tumblrine attempt to distance themselves from sex positivity

ty nona lol

sex neg stuff was p big half a year about but I haven't rly seen it around lately

but I've also seen less kink positive sex ed tumblrs too so who know

well, if "demi"sexuals and "sex positive" asexuals who want to be ~special snowflakes~ and deny their het privilege hadn't taken over the asexual label, maybe that wouldn't be needed

ia tbh but I wish there was more of a push to pin down the definition of asexual, and to push out the notion of there being a spectrum. not everything is a fucking spectrum

there was, and fake asexuals threw a shit fit and real asexuals gave up and made a new term

(fwiw i'm not asexy/sex-repulsed, but a friend of mine is a legit aromantic asexual and i heard all about this a while back lol)

when I identified as asexy I remember aven being rly up it's ass about not being elitist like those awful non libidoists

I feel bad for ppl who actually are it's gotta suck looking for resources in among the tumblr.txt

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