yeah but i wouldn't want to bring a child into "as long as we are happy."
it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
i've been in long term relationships too. but they're not like marriage imo.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)I believe that it is and like ok cool whatever. but wat
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)there are decisions i wouldn't want to do with a plain old relationship, like having kids, or a house. a dog was bad enough.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)the focus on the wedding/marriage cert is bizarro
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
i've been in long term relationships too. but they're not like marriage imo.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)I never conceptualized getting married aside from like, when i was 5 and thought I was straight/that everyone gets married