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C:。ミ ([personal profile] mummysquid) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2013-08-31 09:16 am

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do u like bun buns?



no more carrots :(

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe it's a gay thing but idgi how getting married could be a dealbreaker

I believe that it is and like ok cool whatever. but wat

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
idk i'm bi, and i would commit if i was with a woman, even though i can't get married.

there are decisions i wouldn't want to do with a plain old relationship, like having kids, or a house. a dog was bad enough.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
my bf and i are committed for as long as we make each other happy, and we plan for that to be a lifetime, but we still aren't getting married

the focus on the wedding/marriage cert is bizarro

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah but i wouldn't want to bring a child into "as long as we are happy."

it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.

i've been in long term relationships too. but they're not like marriage imo.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)
we have a kid so apparently that is fine with us lol

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I've had my gf's doctor be shitty to me so I just want the marriage paperwork/lawsuit fodder if anything goes wrong lol

I never conceptualized getting married aside from like, when i was 5 and thought I was straight/that everyone gets married