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i didn't used to cook much because i lived in a share house and it was fucking impossible to cook regularly without losing most of it to housemates. Even keeping ingredients was hard, I had a small box of stuff I kept in my room and when they worked out i kept food there they'd come in after it. someone even used my table salt to make soaks for her piercings and i went to use it and there were like two grains rattling round the bottom of the container.
then i stopped living with hipsters.
then i stopped living with hipsters.
read lordy's comments in lemongrab's voice it make them more entertaining
that's an american for you
i honestly can't believe how complacent most americans are in exchange for comfort
i honestly can't believe how complacent most americans are in exchange for comfort
lmao you're having a conversation with yourself
i can tell you are by the question but not really? answer. format
youre probs one of karnythia's old friends, just going by the writing style
youre probs one of karnythia's old friends, just going by the writing style
can someone tell me if im being an asshole bc i honestly can't tell
for the longest time i've had this relative who has chronic pain and is seriously ill (like needs to be hospitalized/on medication ill) incredibly often, and their illness progressed very fast. they have a habit of calling me up and telling me about new symptoms that happen and complaining about being sick, and i always tell them to go to the doctor, or look up information for them online as to what it could be. sometimes the symptoms are really, really alarming (like not being able to breath, or hitting their head and being disoriented, or things like that) and they never go to the doctor. they'll complain about how bad things are (i dont blame them) but as soon as i bring up how serious it is or act concerned they suddenly flip and try to downplay it like "oh i'll go to the doctor if it gets worse" and never go, or even act frustrated and offended that i suggest it.
it kind of came to a head today after an argument where i ended up admitting that its frustrating to me that they never go to a doctor because it worries me since i care about them and if they were to get REALLY sick i would feel like it was my fault that they told me about symptoms and i didn't do anything even tho i know there's nothing i could do. they accused me of being disrespectful and unsympathetic.
am i being an asshole in basically feeling like taking on all their problems in addition to my own is enabling and draining? i feel like they vent to me and feel fine but then i stress about it for days worrying that they're going to drop dead at any moment (esp with things like not being able to breath or vomiting blood) but maybe i dont understand how hard it is having those problems and dealing with doctors and not getting answers.
im not sure if i should apologize, or if so how. i want to try and salvage our relationship but i feel like i really blew it by admitting how i feel.
for the longest time i've had this relative who has chronic pain and is seriously ill (like needs to be hospitalized/on medication ill) incredibly often, and their illness progressed very fast. they have a habit of calling me up and telling me about new symptoms that happen and complaining about being sick, and i always tell them to go to the doctor, or look up information for them online as to what it could be. sometimes the symptoms are really, really alarming (like not being able to breath, or hitting their head and being disoriented, or things like that) and they never go to the doctor. they'll complain about how bad things are (i dont blame them) but as soon as i bring up how serious it is or act concerned they suddenly flip and try to downplay it like "oh i'll go to the doctor if it gets worse" and never go, or even act frustrated and offended that i suggest it.
it kind of came to a head today after an argument where i ended up admitting that its frustrating to me that they never go to a doctor because it worries me since i care about them and if they were to get REALLY sick i would feel like it was my fault that they told me about symptoms and i didn't do anything even tho i know there's nothing i could do. they accused me of being disrespectful and unsympathetic.
am i being an asshole in basically feeling like taking on all their problems in addition to my own is enabling and draining? i feel like they vent to me and feel fine but then i stress about it for days worrying that they're going to drop dead at any moment (esp with things like not being able to breath or vomiting blood) but maybe i dont understand how hard it is having those problems and dealing with doctors and not getting answers.
im not sure if i should apologize, or if so how. i want to try and salvage our relationship but i feel like i really blew it by admitting how i feel.
IF YOU WEREN'T EVER HOMELESS, YOU HAVE NO ROOM TO TALK ABOUT EATING WHILST POOR
nope
also not stopping churches from campaigning to restrict the statute of limitations
also not stopping churches from campaigning to restrict the statute of limitations
i stay sober for three days and then have the worst flashbacks of my life
why do i bother
why do i bother
This character is nicknamed Haruka because their personality is loosely based off the character Tenou Haruka from Sailor Moon.
Similar to the character they are based on, Haruka is an East Asian somewhat androgynous-but-male presenting genderqueer and major love interest to the MC.
Haruka was drafted out of a desire by both the East Asian people and Black people I follow to cut out white people as the only viable option in interracial relationships, and to try to bring together two groups that have had a lot of differences and fights between them.
Specifically, they wanted an Asian man and a Black woman, but I’m queer as hell, so it came out to be an Asian male-presenting genderqueer instead.
Warning? This might get long. I’ve had this character cooked up for a while.
Haruka is a character after my own heart, modeled after all sorts of amazing fantastical people I’ve always loved. Haruka is tall, Haruka is buff and Haruka is suave. They’re somewhat quiet and thoughtful at times, especially when in a new place, but can be extremely boastful and teasing once comfortable in their surroundings.
The MC is actually quite solidified in my brain as far as personality. I mentioned before that they’d be a black, feminine genderqueer, opposite Haruka’s masculine genderqueer, but outside of that, they actually have quite a little gender journey, like most people on the trans* spectrum have in real life. I use “they” in reference to them here, but I feel as if the MC would answer to any pronouns, she, he, or they. It fits their personality.
They start out as a regal deity, born into the royal family, living a life that most people would love to have. Everything they’ve ever wanted, servants upon servants and attendants upon attendants. THE life.
The MC’s looks…I’m still debating these, but there are definitely some things that I have in mind for sure. Long, tight coiled, slightly frizzy hair, warm brown skin, big hazel eyes. I love the freckle route, but we’ll see on that.
Similar to the character they are based on, Haruka is an East Asian somewhat androgynous-but-male presenting genderqueer and major love interest to the MC.
Haruka was drafted out of a desire by both the East Asian people and Black people I follow to cut out white people as the only viable option in interracial relationships, and to try to bring together two groups that have had a lot of differences and fights between them.
Specifically, they wanted an Asian man and a Black woman, but I’m queer as hell, so it came out to be an Asian male-presenting genderqueer instead.
Warning? This might get long. I’ve had this character cooked up for a while.
Haruka is a character after my own heart, modeled after all sorts of amazing fantastical people I’ve always loved. Haruka is tall, Haruka is buff and Haruka is suave. They’re somewhat quiet and thoughtful at times, especially when in a new place, but can be extremely boastful and teasing once comfortable in their surroundings.
The MC is actually quite solidified in my brain as far as personality. I mentioned before that they’d be a black, feminine genderqueer, opposite Haruka’s masculine genderqueer, but outside of that, they actually have quite a little gender journey, like most people on the trans* spectrum have in real life. I use “they” in reference to them here, but I feel as if the MC would answer to any pronouns, she, he, or they. It fits their personality.
They start out as a regal deity, born into the royal family, living a life that most people would love to have. Everything they’ve ever wanted, servants upon servants and attendants upon attendants. THE life.
The MC’s looks…I’m still debating these, but there are definitely some things that I have in mind for sure. Long, tight coiled, slightly frizzy hair, warm brown skin, big hazel eyes. I love the freckle route, but we’ll see on that.
tbh if anything becomes canon in free i hope it's nagisa/rei
lol i no it won't happen tho
lol i no it won't happen tho
lmao "heat exhaustion isn't a serious medical issue" nona returns
no you're not an asshole, it sounds like munchausen-y, like they only want attention if you're fawning but when you challenge them, they get defensive and somewhat aggressive or lash out
the sad thing is that most of those suits can cost upwards of $1500+ to make or commission
those people invested so much to look like dumdums
those people invested so much to look like dumdums
no i'm with you. it sounds like you need to distance yourself emotionally for your own well being
i know a furry who goes by haruka and it always makes me lol
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