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I was raised LDS, my entire immediate family is LDS, and the idea of a bunch of women in the church wearing pants to church makes me REALLY EXCITED. That's huge, and takes a ton of courage. Anyone who thinks otherwise doesn't know enough about the religion to comment.
i'm reading this sf_d food wank rn and i actually tend to agree with the person who seems like she's trying to troll
cooking is a necessity in many countries, no matter how poor and overworked you are, and i think americans have gone soft and whiny
cooking is a necessity in many countries, no matter how poor and overworked you are, and i think americans have gone soft and whiny
http://vomohiper.tumblr.com/post/59779128192/pope-francis-personally-called-a-rape-victim-to-comfort
fuck almighty, she's such an asshole
the ppl who run the chinese stand at the local food hall will give me four takeaway containers of food for $8 if i show up at close of business and they've got stuff still going. that's like 4 dinners for me and i don't have to fart about with anything other than using a microwave and washing a fork when i'm finished. If I freeze 3 of the packs so they last longer, and cook some rice or buy some bread to go with it i can stretch it out to last a whole week. That just leaves lunches and breakfasts to deal with, and they are easy to do cheap.
americans are still soft and whiny
you always have some excuse why you ~can't~ do even the simplest things
you always have some excuse why you ~can't~ do even the simplest things
i feel like i'd either have to come out as gay or just stay straight because idk if i say, "well i like guys, but i dont wanna fuck or be "with" them" if that would translate well, i think whoever i told would just be like "so youre gay" and ive trieddddd so fuckin hard to connect to being gay & listening to stories & getting gay friends & just trying to understand that & at one point in my life i was accepting of the fact that i was gay but later on i realized i felt no connect, like nothing clicked, it all felt like i was picking something because i had to, idk sometimes i feel like im lying to myself as far as my attraction to girls but i feel something there, its soo complicated, like not knowing if youre in denial or not
you'd shit yourself if you saw the frozen burritos and tacos and canned salsa in mexican supermarkets
are you dumbfucks only reading the first few comments from that asshole? cause the valid points? don't matter a lick when you read the rest of the fucking comments
i didn't used to cook much because i lived in a share house and it was fucking impossible to cook regularly without losing most of it to housemates. Even keeping ingredients was hard, I had a small box of stuff I kept in my room and when they worked out i kept food there they'd come in after it. someone even used my table salt to make soaks for her piercings and i went to use it and there were like two grains rattling round the bottom of the container.
then i stopped living with hipsters.
then i stopped living with hipsters.
read lordy's comments in lemongrab's voice it make them more entertaining
can someone tell me if im being an asshole bc i honestly can't tell
for the longest time i've had this relative who has chronic pain and is seriously ill (like needs to be hospitalized/on medication ill) incredibly often, and their illness progressed very fast. they have a habit of calling me up and telling me about new symptoms that happen and complaining about being sick, and i always tell them to go to the doctor, or look up information for them online as to what it could be. sometimes the symptoms are really, really alarming (like not being able to breath, or hitting their head and being disoriented, or things like that) and they never go to the doctor. they'll complain about how bad things are (i dont blame them) but as soon as i bring up how serious it is or act concerned they suddenly flip and try to downplay it like "oh i'll go to the doctor if it gets worse" and never go, or even act frustrated and offended that i suggest it.
it kind of came to a head today after an argument where i ended up admitting that its frustrating to me that they never go to a doctor because it worries me since i care about them and if they were to get REALLY sick i would feel like it was my fault that they told me about symptoms and i didn't do anything even tho i know there's nothing i could do. they accused me of being disrespectful and unsympathetic.
am i being an asshole in basically feeling like taking on all their problems in addition to my own is enabling and draining? i feel like they vent to me and feel fine but then i stress about it for days worrying that they're going to drop dead at any moment (esp with things like not being able to breath or vomiting blood) but maybe i dont understand how hard it is having those problems and dealing with doctors and not getting answers.
im not sure if i should apologize, or if so how. i want to try and salvage our relationship but i feel like i really blew it by admitting how i feel.
for the longest time i've had this relative who has chronic pain and is seriously ill (like needs to be hospitalized/on medication ill) incredibly often, and their illness progressed very fast. they have a habit of calling me up and telling me about new symptoms that happen and complaining about being sick, and i always tell them to go to the doctor, or look up information for them online as to what it could be. sometimes the symptoms are really, really alarming (like not being able to breath, or hitting their head and being disoriented, or things like that) and they never go to the doctor. they'll complain about how bad things are (i dont blame them) but as soon as i bring up how serious it is or act concerned they suddenly flip and try to downplay it like "oh i'll go to the doctor if it gets worse" and never go, or even act frustrated and offended that i suggest it.
it kind of came to a head today after an argument where i ended up admitting that its frustrating to me that they never go to a doctor because it worries me since i care about them and if they were to get REALLY sick i would feel like it was my fault that they told me about symptoms and i didn't do anything even tho i know there's nothing i could do. they accused me of being disrespectful and unsympathetic.
am i being an asshole in basically feeling like taking on all their problems in addition to my own is enabling and draining? i feel like they vent to me and feel fine but then i stress about it for days worrying that they're going to drop dead at any moment (esp with things like not being able to breath or vomiting blood) but maybe i dont understand how hard it is having those problems and dealing with doctors and not getting answers.
im not sure if i should apologize, or if so how. i want to try and salvage our relationship but i feel like i really blew it by admitting how i feel.
IF YOU WEREN'T EVER HOMELESS, YOU HAVE NO ROOM TO TALK ABOUT EATING WHILST POOR
i stay sober for three days and then have the worst flashbacks of my life
why do i bother
why do i bother
This character is nicknamed Haruka because their personality is loosely based off the character Tenou Haruka from Sailor Moon.
Similar to the character they are based on, Haruka is an East Asian somewhat androgynous-but-male presenting genderqueer and major love interest to the MC.
Haruka was drafted out of a desire by both the East Asian people and Black people I follow to cut out white people as the only viable option in interracial relationships, and to try to bring together two groups that have had a lot of differences and fights between them.
Specifically, they wanted an Asian man and a Black woman, but I’m queer as hell, so it came out to be an Asian male-presenting genderqueer instead.
Warning? This might get long. I’ve had this character cooked up for a while.
Haruka is a character after my own heart, modeled after all sorts of amazing fantastical people I’ve always loved. Haruka is tall, Haruka is buff and Haruka is suave. They’re somewhat quiet and thoughtful at times, especially when in a new place, but can be extremely boastful and teasing once comfortable in their surroundings.
The MC is actually quite solidified in my brain as far as personality. I mentioned before that they’d be a black, feminine genderqueer, opposite Haruka’s masculine genderqueer, but outside of that, they actually have quite a little gender journey, like most people on the trans* spectrum have in real life. I use “they” in reference to them here, but I feel as if the MC would answer to any pronouns, she, he, or they. It fits their personality.
They start out as a regal deity, born into the royal family, living a life that most people would love to have. Everything they’ve ever wanted, servants upon servants and attendants upon attendants. THE life.
The MC’s looks…I’m still debating these, but there are definitely some things that I have in mind for sure. Long, tight coiled, slightly frizzy hair, warm brown skin, big hazel eyes. I love the freckle route, but we’ll see on that.
Similar to the character they are based on, Haruka is an East Asian somewhat androgynous-but-male presenting genderqueer and major love interest to the MC.
Haruka was drafted out of a desire by both the East Asian people and Black people I follow to cut out white people as the only viable option in interracial relationships, and to try to bring together two groups that have had a lot of differences and fights between them.
Specifically, they wanted an Asian man and a Black woman, but I’m queer as hell, so it came out to be an Asian male-presenting genderqueer instead.
Warning? This might get long. I’ve had this character cooked up for a while.
Haruka is a character after my own heart, modeled after all sorts of amazing fantastical people I’ve always loved. Haruka is tall, Haruka is buff and Haruka is suave. They’re somewhat quiet and thoughtful at times, especially when in a new place, but can be extremely boastful and teasing once comfortable in their surroundings.
The MC is actually quite solidified in my brain as far as personality. I mentioned before that they’d be a black, feminine genderqueer, opposite Haruka’s masculine genderqueer, but outside of that, they actually have quite a little gender journey, like most people on the trans* spectrum have in real life. I use “they” in reference to them here, but I feel as if the MC would answer to any pronouns, she, he, or they. It fits their personality.
They start out as a regal deity, born into the royal family, living a life that most people would love to have. Everything they’ve ever wanted, servants upon servants and attendants upon attendants. THE life.
The MC’s looks…I’m still debating these, but there are definitely some things that I have in mind for sure. Long, tight coiled, slightly frizzy hair, warm brown skin, big hazel eyes. I love the freckle route, but we’ll see on that.
tbh if anything becomes canon in free i hope it's nagisa/rei
lol i no it won't happen tho
lol i no it won't happen tho
YES, it's a great idea for anyone to want to change an institution but if you know anything about the Mormon church, you know that it is so *extremely* misogynistic it will never, ever change. Ever. If it did, it would pretty much be an entirely new religion. So it is a complete oxymoron to call yourself a Feminist Mormon, and they do run their community poorly, both of which are worth some wank, imoho.
if any nona is a good sewna make pony plushes and market them to bronies
preferably some overrated background character like the one they thought was killed
preferably some overrated background character like the one they thought was killed
the rat in our pipes is gone, but now our fridge is broken
is my house cursed
is my house cursed
i haven't been hungry all day, it's 9 pm, and i've eaten maybe 600 calories. i've been nauseated since yesterday. i'm not trying to diet or lose weight. time to eat smth or time to g2b?
this mormon post is so weird
everyone is advocating for the women staying in the church so they can change it even tho it's often violently racist and sexist????
if we were talking about conservatives the reaction would've been totally different
everyone is advocating for the women staying in the church so they can change it even tho it's often violently racist and sexist????
if we were talking about conservatives the reaction would've been totally different
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