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hmmm so I think I might be demisexual? I mean I look at people and I’m like wow what eye candy pretty yay but I have pretty much zero interest in having sex with them, unless I have an emotional connection to them. Whether in real life or a celebrity or some random person on the internet. Like I see someone and I’m like wow what an extremely attractive individual, but if I imagine having sex with them it just seems very clinical, skin, whatever, like maybe it would feel good but you don’t need another person for that. but I don’t want that any more strongly than with someone I just find ordinary looking.
and I mean I used to feel quite distressed because I couldn’t imagine myself meeting anyone I wanted in that way, other than the people I did in fact want, who were celebrities and thus unattainable. but then I figured out that what happens is as I get to know some people I develop an attraction to them, which was something I hadn’t been able to factor in when I was trying to envision this Future Person Who I Would Be Interested In. Does that make sense?
so. It’s not a sure thing yet but it’s something I’m kinda rolling around in my head.
and I mean I used to feel quite distressed because I couldn’t imagine myself meeting anyone I wanted in that way, other than the people I did in fact want, who were celebrities and thus unattainable. but then I figured out that what happens is as I get to know some people I develop an attraction to them, which was something I hadn’t been able to factor in when I was trying to envision this Future Person Who I Would Be Interested In. Does that make sense?
so. It’s not a sure thing yet but it’s something I’m kinda rolling around in my head.
my first pap smear was done in a nurse practioner's office with like 3 nurses-in-training watching
anything after that is p chill imo
anything after that is p chill imo
i am glad you're here bc i have to prep for a meeting
my first was at an lgbt clinic w/ my gf holding my hand and a rly awesome obgyn that left later that year :C
lol @ nonas defending an unnecessary and intrusive test just bc it's not that dangerous
an ultrasound isn't dangerous either so igss it's ok to require one before an abortion
an ultrasound isn't dangerous either so igss it's ok to require one before an abortion
aww that's really sweet, though i'm sorry you lost your cool doctor
my mom made me go to an old woman gyno who told me to stop whining when she used a cold speculum that was too big
it was terrible
it was terrible
that sucks. i also had a bad pap with a woman gyno, she was not sympathetic to my anxiety at all
me too, the woman that replaced her was kind of a butt
pap tests aren't recommended for women under 21 and are only meant to be done every 3 years unless you are at a high risk
look when u say a pap carries ~unnecessary risk~ don't get buttmad when ppl point out that a pap has no risks
yes we know
what we don't know is why some people are rabid when they're done more often
what we don't know is why some people are rabid when they're done more often
in a university health center, also done by an np
it was quick, painless, and overall nbd
it was quick, painless, and overall nbd
my first time was with a nurse who got mad at me because i couldn't relax enough immediately and eventually she just jammed it in and it hurt sfm for days :/
i've avoided the whole thing ever since
i've avoided the whole thing ever since
bad experiences are the worst
i had one (dude) throw me a script for xanax and say if I couldn't calm down enough for a pelvic I was endangering my health. i thought my mom was gonna bite his head off
i had one (dude) throw me a script for xanax and say if I couldn't calm down enough for a pelvic I was endangering my health. i thought my mom was gonna bite his head off
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