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[mommysquad]

 hey nonas



are you street-smart?
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[(Anonymous)]

probably gonna get dogpiled here but i kinda hate how ppl who aren't bi always assume that bi ppl can just ~choose to be in a str8 relationship.

like yes i could force myself to repress all same-sex attraction, but so could a gay person.

[(Anonymous)]

ia but I get kinda annoyed that the bi discourse turns into 'well I may pass as straight and have no other relationship in my life BUT POINTING THAT OUT IS ERASING'

[(Anonymous)]

yeah i get that but a few dumbalines =/= all bi ppl, even ones in het relationships

[(Anonymous)]

oh definitely and I think the problems facing bi people trying to find a community should be addressed, as well as the groce attitudes a lot of other queer people have internalized about bisexuals.

but instead we have to talk about how sad it is that people look at a woman and man holding hands and don't think WOW SO QUEER

[(Anonymous)]

biba i'm bi too and i don't like that assumption, but i'm really uncomfortable with that comparison

i could repress all same-sex attraction without repressing all the attraction i experience; the same doesn't apply if you're gay

[(Anonymous)]

honestly i'm ok with that comparison, because it's not like i'm attracted to every fucking dude i see. i may have been attracted to one guy, once, or a couple of guys, but if i'm currently attracted to women then yeah, i'm repressing all my attraction.

[(Anonymous)]

i'm bi and yeah, attitudes towards bi ppl are shitty but stuff like bfp says are just straight up wrong. woman/man relationships are privileged regardless of orientation. a closeted gay man with a woman will suffer from internalized homophobia but will still have the institutional and societal privilege of appearing straight