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[mommysquad]

 What kind of shenanigans did you get up to behind your teachers' backs?

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[(Anonymous)]

if you're gay

when did you first suspect you might be gay

and when were you sure

[(Anonymous)]

1st grade

at 17

[(Anonymous)]

lol i used to pray every night when i was 16 that i wouldn't turn into a lesbian

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I was sure at 21

[notdolan]

me too biba, when i was 12ish :( i didn't even believe in god but i would pray that i was straight all the time. i'm severely emetophobic and remember telling myself "i would rather vomit"

i'm glad that i've made more peace with myself and hope you have too <3

[coalhouse]

always? idk i didn't have any angst abt it, it kind of just happened

and then i went out on some dates w/ a lady and i was like "ok this feels natural i guess i'm for real bi"

and then some dates with dudes

but the sex was really unfulfilling and i didn't like touching them

so i went from tentatively bisexual to identifying as fully les

[nimrod]

8

13

[(Anonymous)]

i was in a lot of denial for a while

i think i first worried about it at 16, but then i read something that said "don't worry, you probably just get aroused looking at women probably just because women are oversexualized in our culture" and was like "oh, whew"

i was sure at 22

[witchwife]

the summer before high school i figured out i liked girls probably

freshman/sophomore yr of college i came to terms with not liking guys

[justanona]

pre10

12? idk still wondering rn tbh

[notdolan]

does bi count?

first time i consciously thought it was when i was in 6th grade

when i was sure... that's harder. it took a very, very long time and was very gradual. i can't really put a set moment on when i was sure. there was a very long period of time where i was out to a couple of people, but still tried to convince myself that i was just lying

once i got to college i came out completely and just slowly started becoming more comfortable with letting myself show the attraction i had for women