omg lmao for a few years i honestly was trying to save up to move to seattle because i read all these trans women moved there and things improved but its like over 1k for rent there on average so those plans are dead in the water

at the very least family in this instance can't stop me from getting the medical care i need, its just trying to be patient and work with whatever the system expects of me

i was at least able to travel with a (cishet lol) friend to the nearest city's trans pride to experience being together with other people but then it feels like i'll never get that experience again because its over 3 hours trip one way and that's just not feasible to do often