would ignorant opinions be a deal breaker in a friendship for u?
i've been getting to know this person and i rly like her and we have a lot in common but she has this mentality that women who dress provocatively are ~asking to be catcalled and that women should dress conservatively "for their own protection". it doesnt come up often, only a handful of times, but also its bc i actively avoid topics where it might i think. obv i dont agree with it at all and ive said as much but we end up just kind of awkwardly moving on to the next thing so its not like im setting out to change her mind or anything. i dont think i could.
its dumb but its also such a common dumb that idk if its rly that big of a deal to overlook? or is that fake af to pretend its nbd.
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i've been getting to know this person and i rly like her and we have a lot in common but she has this mentality that women who dress provocatively are ~asking to be catcalled and that women should dress conservatively "for their own protection". it doesnt come up often, only a handful of times, but also its bc i actively avoid topics where it might i think. obv i dont agree with it at all and ive said as much but we end up just kind of awkwardly moving on to the next thing so its not like im setting out to change her mind or anything. i dont think i could.
its dumb but its also such a common dumb that idk if its rly that big of a deal to overlook? or is that fake af to pretend its nbd.