the racism happens tho i notice a lot of yt lesbians have the same fetishistic attraction to east asian women that straight men have (i've had multiple women want to date me because they project an idealized vision of femininity and submissiveness onto me)
idk how common lesbians saying 'no butches' is compared to gay men hating on fem dudes tho, i've seen some hate (again the women who have been attracted to me obsessed with having a feminine gf and not an 'ugly mannish woman') but its not as widespread
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(Anonymous) 2015-06-20 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)does this happen in lesbian dating spaces
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(Anonymous) 2015-06-20 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)idk how common lesbians saying 'no butches' is compared to gay men hating on fem dudes tho, i've seen some hate (again the women who have been attracted to me obsessed with having a feminine gf and not an 'ugly mannish woman') but its not as widespread
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