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C:。ミ ([personal profile] mummysquid) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2015-06-19 01:28 pm

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In wake of the Charleston Church shooting please content warn your discussion of the event on anon.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
i've had therapy and lol if you think it will cover this or help

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
uhhhh dealing with ur body insecurities is exactly wat therapy is supposed 2 do

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
bah how are they magically going to fix this or even care that much

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
it's their job nona, it's what they're trained to do

like doctors

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
you've either had amazing luck with therapists or you've got no experience of them at all

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
i mean yes there are shitty therapists out there and it can take a while to find a good one/can be hard 2 get access but if you find someone who's skilled they actually can help a lot

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
sry but i don't have the resources or money to shop around

i've gone through many of them and they've been varying degrees of unhelpful to one who was fucked up and threatened me and killed my self esteem further

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
ok i understand that

but i still say the issue is the way u see urself and idt u'll have nearly as much trouble finding d8s as u think

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
beebs they can't fix u, u gotta fix u. they can give u tools to be able to have higher self esteem. hope u self love

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
the tools that they've given me have been ridiculous and nonhelpful tbh

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
u've had shitty therapists then

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
glad to know u think everyone else who is helped by these things are ridiculous

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
they're not? stop projecting

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
anon always uses this patronizing answer for every issue

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe bc depression? also maybe bc shitty exps with therapy so they feel worse than better?

hope u never depressed tbh bc u sound ignorant about it

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
op

i've had depression and telling me to get therapy as if it'll actually fix something like this is massively condescending

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
yes no one with depression has ever been helped by therapy

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
ignoring someone's feelings on it don't help u kno. the mental health field is fucked it is known

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt yeah i know its weird on anon but theres a lot of shitty therapists out there or some people are too messed up to be helped by it alone

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
so is the medical field, does that mean we stop going 2 doctors

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
it means you let people vent about that instead of shutting them down bc you're insecure

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
for some it does, so what are u jabbering about

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(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
nobody can make u want to follow thru w/ therapy and try to make urself better

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
i am depressed and seeing a therapist and its still condescending that anon does this on so many vent threads

people can still be in therapy and have issues, it can be a long process

(Anonymous) 2015-06-19 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
just letting ppl have feelings without being like 'lql therapy' as if it's a potion is p.stupid