And it is not helped by the fact that many NarSas argue with ~canon arguments~ that NarSas is better than SasNar (I’ve complained over and over because of that), nor the fact many SasNar actually HIDE THEMSELVES because the NarSas had been shaming them into “misreading” the manga if you ship SasNar.

And I’m not even kidding. The number of NarSas fans only who had been telling “How can YOU ship SasNar???? Don’t you see with THOSE FACTS that this is NARSAS, don’t worry we will make you ship NarSas!!” while the SasNar I met are all “Yeah, I know, I prefer SasNar, but you know, I just prefer it, but NarSas is cool too.. oh my god you too you ship SasNar?? I am not used to see SasNar fans, I am so happy!!!”
The only fact something like that ^ happens in our fandom is enough to make me cringe.