Perhaps it was simply coincidence that a reporter approached Rachel’s parents now, and perhaps if he hadn’t they still wouldn’t have said anything. But I have to say, the timing is concerning. Did Rachel’s parents out her as white simply because they care about the truth? Or were they also motivated by a desire to discredit her so that they can, by association, discredit the victim she is supporting, and thereby protect their son from the sexual abuse charges that have been levied against him? Did Rachel act inexcusably in lying and deceiving people? Oh, hell yes. But elevating her parents heroes or truth-tellers while ignoring this troubling context is worrisome.
And perhaps that’s what’s bothering me about this story. Rachel’s parents have been paraded and lauded across the media, their words taken at face value, despite the fact that they have been (successfully) accused of abuse and despite the fact that they are defending their adult son against accusations of child sexual abuse. And as someone familiar with the dynamics of abuse, this makes me really uncomfortable.
i messaged this to her: ""you’re not wrong at all adults have no entitlement in spaces that are specifically for teenagers & college aged kids" college aged kids COLLEGE AGED KIDS /COLLEGE AGED KIDS/ stop infantilizing yourself and other young adults please god"
i think what i love about "no adults allowed in fandom" from tumblr is it's rly obvious that none of them seem to realize that they're going to be adults someday
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