Don't play house!! He will take advantage of you. Trust me from personal experience and every relationship book and article I have ever read, says don't do it! He has no reason to marry you if you are taking care of you, like you are his wife.
I realized I was playing wifey too much before we got engaged so this is how I cut it back. My friends agreed that I DID WAY Too Much for him!
I only did his laundry sometimes and when I did it, I folded it but made him put it up. I stopped making his bed after everyday getting out of it. I only did the dishes half of the time, split choirs with him. I didn't cook for him every night. If you don't have a job I would get one asap, atleast one part time, to keep yourself busy. If you are working you have an excuse on why you are not doing all his choirs for him, but if you are not working, he will think you are just being lazy.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)I realized I was playing wifey too much before we got engaged so this is how I cut it back. My friends agreed that I DID WAY Too Much for him!
I only did his laundry sometimes and when I did it, I folded it but made him put it up. I stopped making his bed after everyday getting out of it. I only did the dishes half of the time, split choirs with him. I didn't cook for him every night. If you don't have a job I would get one asap, atleast one part time, to keep yourself busy. If you are working you have an excuse on why you are not doing all his choirs for him, but if you are not working, he will think you are just being lazy.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)partners take care of each other because they want to, not to manipulate the other person into marriage. ew
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)newp.