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C:。ミ ([personal profile] mummysquid) wrote in [community profile] hms_anon2013-08-31 09:16 am

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do u like bun buns?



no more carrots :(

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
im friendly and polite but im still not "charismatic"

will toastmasters rly teach me the way?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 08:28 am (UTC)(link)
yes

toastmasters is the alpha and the omega of charm

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 08:34 am (UTC)(link)
just be confident tbh, friendly alone isnt enough. confidence tips most ppl seem to fuck up:
- its better to leave people guessing than talk too much
- dont be afraid to make and hold eye contact
- use great posture when sitting or standing
- talk more slowly rather than too quickly
- dont move too much. dont fiddle with your hair, your clothes, rock from side to side, etc. find some other way to deal with nervous energy
worked for me tbh i have way more friends since I