none of my family was married with kids, can you read?

all of my family had babies with guys they wanted to keep, but the guys had different plans.

i know there are relationships where ppl have babies and aren't married and stay together, i'm just really distrustful of that sort of relationship, and i'd like to make sure i'd have a legal basis for the child to get support even if we are divorced. plus i'd like a relationship where we'd have the same expectations. i'm sure it can happen without marriage, but i'd like to be married.

it doesn't rly have anything to do with the wedding itself.