luckily i dont have to worry about kids but this was my family's experience growing up.

my dad had a labor intensive job when he came home and he usually slept right away after work. my mom had a less labor intensive job but she still had to take care of us kids and cook and clean. if she and my dad had divorced then what? thats over half the income gone.

you need to shut the fuck up and go punch yourself in the face.