This is very disturbing to me. I can only be in favor of a position where fidelity and life-long monogamy lose no further ground. I must energetically oppose any attempts to “loosen” or “open” the mores around monogamy and fidelity. The whole idea of Christian marriage is a model of singular life-long fidelity. I am curious just how prevalent this “monogamish” POV is among religious gay men. Obviously there are no reliable statistics, but if anyone wants to weigh in anecdotally, be my guest.