Sperm donation reinforces the worst in society’s view of fatherhood and in the behavior of men. And as a woman who has grown, botne, and held three newborns of my own, I cannot talk of “surrogacy” and the ripping of a child from the mother’s breast by selfish men, without needing to hold back an urge to literally vomit. You may have the money to buy this, but no right, no one has that right.