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ntayrt but have you seen her suffer from the symptoms she says she's suffering from?
you're not being an asshole and it's fine to set boundaries as to how much you can hear of this. it's unrealistic to think they can just dump on you forever. don't apologize. you didn't do anything wrong. when they start in and you can't take the stress just say something like, "well I know if it's bad you'll go to the doctor" and change the subject.
actually it depends on the majority race for your country, bc white ppl are notoriously bad at handling any kind of heat
they pass out like flies as soon as it gets over 95
they pass out like flies as soon as it gets over 95
yeah i agree that blurting it out was stupid, i was way too emotional and should have just stepped away. maybe in a few days after things cool off and i can call her and apologize about that and hopefully just take it from there.
she goes to doctors pretty regularly for a main set of symptoms/problems that she has, but then she will have all these secondary problems that are still serious but she doesn't think are related to the main problems or makes up total excuses herself (like for example the puking blood, she blamed on an IV she was given during a hospital stay...things like that, which don't even make sense). so she just genuinely convinces herself that a doctor visit isnt needed, we're also kind of pressed for money at the minute.
whether or not that's the real reason im not sure. but thats the reason she tells me.
she goes to doctors pretty regularly for a main set of symptoms/problems that she has, but then she will have all these secondary problems that are still serious but she doesn't think are related to the main problems or makes up total excuses herself (like for example the puking blood, she blamed on an IV she was given during a hospital stay...things like that, which don't even make sense). so she just genuinely convinces herself that a doctor visit isnt needed, we're also kind of pressed for money at the minute.
whether or not that's the real reason im not sure. but thats the reason she tells me.
also you should read up on codependence because none of these are your problems and you don't need to take them on.
i haven't been hungry all day, it's 9 pm, and i've eaten maybe 600 calories. i've been nauseated since yesterday. i'm not trying to diet or lose weight. time to eat smth or time to g2b?
not directly. i've seen her sit down because she gets dizzy, or seen her have to lay down from back pain, but some of the more bizarre ones i have not seen. but then again i dont rly follow her into the bathroom so i can't rly know. i see results sometimes, like she's been covered in bruises which she told me she gets from passing out and falling over, but i've never actually seen her passing out or vomiting or things like that. :/
this is my solution b/c the nearest mcdonalds is half an hour away lol
drink some juice (dilute if u can't handle it all rn)
eat. if ur sick then not eating is just going to make it last longer
this mormon post is so weird
everyone is advocating for the women staying in the church so they can change it even tho it's often violently racist and sexist????
if we were talking about conservatives the reaction would've been totally different
everyone is advocating for the women staying in the church so they can change it even tho it's often violently racist and sexist????
if we were talking about conservatives the reaction would've been totally different
idk if this will help, but i feel like this with my mom, too - except she sort of turns it on me, like i have some mental health issues and it's like she wants them to be like they were at the worst and had to move home b/c i couldn't take care of myself/had no job/wasn't getting out of bed/etc
now whenever i am excited about something new for example, she'll be like 'i hope it doesn't make you too anxious' and says all sorts of things that are just so hurtful like, why would you say that?
parents can be toxic and you can set boundaries. i've basically started telling my mother 'i don't want to talk about this anymore because it's not a productive conversation' and if she keeps at it, i hang up
now whenever i am excited about something new for example, she'll be like 'i hope it doesn't make you too anxious' and says all sorts of things that are just so hurtful like, why would you say that?
parents can be toxic and you can set boundaries. i've basically started telling my mother 'i don't want to talk about this anymore because it's not a productive conversation' and if she keeps at it, i hang up
another thing about buying fresh fruit/vegetables is that they're only in season for a certain amoutn of year so price may vary
but religion is special and sacred and criticizing someone for their religion is horrible always
tbf she might be avoiding doctors' visits bc they're expensive, and trying to justify that (which doesn't make up for the way she treats you etc.).
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