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marriage is rooted in ownership of women and is, in general, bad for women. idgi why people want it
I've had my gf's doctor be shitty to me so I just want the marriage paperwork/lawsuit fodder if anything goes wrong lol
I never conceptualized getting married aside from like, when i was 5 and thought I was straight/that everyone gets married
I never conceptualized getting married aside from like, when i was 5 and thought I was straight/that everyone gets married
yeah but i wouldn't want to bring a child into "as long as we are happy."
it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
i've been in long term relationships too. but they're not like marriage imo.
it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
i've been in long term relationships too. but they're not like marriage imo.
that's only if marriage is important to the couple
lots of people just aren't getting marriaed at all anymore
lots of people just aren't getting marriaed at all anymore
either bc of all the legal stuff it's tied up with or bc of its cultural value as a status symbol
i might get married if there was a prenup and an expiration with option to renew
man all these women on that forum calling themselves girls or saying it's inspiring to wait on a dude who you don't want to get married to, to say he wants to get married.. damn this is depressing. stop waiting to exhale, jesus.
like who doesn't talk to their partner about what they are expecting? even in a ldr, at what point are you going to start just dropping hints about marriage bc u didn't talk about it during the dating phase. 1yr is like hell naw, and 2 yrs is like he'd better say something even tho i'm not ready??
like who doesn't talk to their partner about what they are expecting? even in a ldr, at what point are you going to start just dropping hints about marriage bc u didn't talk about it during the dating phase. 1yr is like hell naw, and 2 yrs is like he'd better say something even tho i'm not ready??
i would have a "we're totes committed" party and accept presents. no way would i get legally married unless i had a fucking good reason
My character has an extremelly bad imunological system, a condition he apparently inherited from his mother. I wanted a chronic illness for him to have other than his poor imunological system, or maybe even an chronic condition that explained his poor imunological system, but I don't know what it could be.
I searched for a couple of things, but I was confused. I'd like something that could be treated with medicine\vitamins. Bonus if the disease causes him to be physically tired
I searched for a couple of things, but I was confused. I'd like something that could be treated with medicine\vitamins. Bonus if the disease causes him to be physically tired
lots of couples don't talk to each other about shit, it's weird
we have a kid so apparently that is fine with us lol
stuff changes. besides legal issues and cultural raisins. i sorta h8 the ppl who are all "well they can't leave you so easily." that's not rlly a good reason to want to marry
setting up an elaborate proposal involving all our friends and families and putting you in the spot rn
nona will u marry me?
nona will u marry me?
will we get gay marriage wank or making fun of weddings is misogyny wank?
i know there's always all this pressure on women not to nag their bfs about their relationship or w/e but you'll never get anything done if you can't communicate and he can't either. like having a deal breaker and enforcing one are two different planets
how does being married protect you from any of this:
even the poster says none of her married family stayed together
avoid a worse breakup and don't get legally entangled in the first place
yeah but i wouldn't want to bring a child into "as long as we are happy."
it's a family thing to me. no one in my family had a successful marriage, it sucks being a single mother, it sucks dating while being a single mother, it sucks having a person around that you really can't stand because of the kid.
even the poster says none of her married family stayed together
avoid a worse breakup and don't get legally entangled in the first place
that's fine for them, i know a couple who's not.
but in any case, you should be able to talk about your expectations for the relationship. if someone says, "i don't know." it's a bad sign.
but in any case, you should be able to talk about your expectations for the relationship. if someone says, "i don't know." it's a bad sign.
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