(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
aww biba that's pr qt

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
lol aw

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
ideg what they're trying to say

Re: http://www.lyft.me/

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds kind of like casual carpool in the bay area
but idk, i think casual carpool works bc so many ppl use it ... i'd be wary of the lyft me thing, but i think it's worth a try

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
lql that's adorable

tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
do any nonas have any experience getting away from a friendship that was both significantly abusive and really important to who you are now? i am breaking away from a friend who i'm now aware exercises a lot of convert dominance and control and in my case cruelty, but i was vulnerable in the first place because they were a huge source of legit support and encouragement for my creative work. i am trying to put this in perspective alongside child/adolescent abuse perpetrated by adults who also brought things to my life that are a part of me. but i still feel totally mentally unprepared to cope with this coming from a "peer," like these are emotions i don't have words for. i am not in crisis about this now but i do need to get as much peace with it as i can now so i can focus on other things.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Image

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:46 pm (UTC)(link)
2cool4me

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
cut them off completely, it's the only way

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah i probably will but i still have a lot to work out on my own

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
probably

ok

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:50 pm (UTC)(link)
don't be a dick

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
cherokee jack/samurai jack otp

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
ugh fuck off

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
lunk

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
you can find people who provide you the same emotional support and creative encouragement who are not abusive to you

please cut this person out of your life. i know it is hard but it is worth it

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
you can do it biba, it's okay to feel scared or uncertain but rn the important thing is getting this person to a place where they can't hurt you.

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah i am <3 this is more about how i come to terms with it all on my own

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
thank you <3 i am not going to allow myself to be motivated out of fear and shameful gratitude anymore.

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:56 pm (UTC)(link)
gl biba <3

Re: tw abuse

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)
i am still working through those feelings a long time after leaving the relationship. sometimes i dont feel like certain feelings will ever go away for me, but it is a comfort to know that the person doesnt have a role in my life anymore

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm your basic average girl
and i'm here to save the world
you can't stop me 'cause i'm
kim poss-i-ble

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
about that foil one, is it a foil chewing secret? or is it for some sort of reference to a addictive substance or something?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
have you ever been fisted

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 06:01 pm (UTC)(link)
no but i would like to try it